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「晚安」成长的很大一部分, 是接受, 无论好坏

2022-04-21 深度 58 ℃ 0 评论
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我怀疑我们之所以能如此顺畅无缝地接受996,那都是初高中早自习+八节课+晚自习+补课+家庭作业带来的后遗症。

I suspect that the reason why we can accept 996 so smoothly and seamlessly is that it is the sequelae of self-study in the morning, eight classes, self-study in the evening, supplementary lessons and homework.

生活中好玩有趣开心的事情也很多,不要放大自己的不开心,也不要总是为难自己胡思乱想,好好和自己相处才是好好成长呀。

There are a lot of fun and happy things in life. Don't magnify your unhappiness, and don't always make yourself confused. To get along well with yourself is to grow up well.

值得庆幸的是,遇到了真心希望我好的朋友。

他们有时候像睿智的长辈,有时候像个没长大的小孩,总是能真心实意地高兴我的高兴、难过我的难过。

那种完全不夹杂着嫉妒和功利心的相处,真会让人觉得三生有幸。

Fortunately, I met a good friend who sincerely hoped for me.

Sometimes they are like wise elders, sometimes they are like children who have not grown up. They can always be happy and sad for me sincerely.

That kind of completely does not mix the jealousy and the utilitarian heart to get along, really can let the human feel lucky.

成长的很大一部分,是接受,无论好坏。

A big part of growth is acceptance, good or bad.

好像越来越能够接受离别了,也开始意识到人生就是「和一些人分开,再重新认识另一些人」的过程。

就像列车沿途的站台,每到一个地方总会有人离开。

It seems that I am more and more able to accept parting, and I am also beginning to realize that life is a process of "separating from some people and getting to know others again".

Just like the platform along the train, there will always be people leaving every place.

所以不必强求非得和谁走到终点的,这没那么重要,重要的是此刻身边人的陪伴。

换句话说,其实终点没有鲜花,你的鲜花就在你旁边。

So you don't have to ask who you have to go to the end with. It's not so important. What's important is the company of people around you at the moment.

In other words, there are no flowers at the end, your flowers are beside you.

被误解的感觉一定很难受吧,真希望我脸上无所谓的时候,心里也是无所谓。

可我不喜欢去解释别人对我的看法,好像我是个十恶不赦的罪人。

所以你所见即我,好坏都是。

The feeling of being misunderstood must be very uncomfortable. I really hope that when my face doesn't matter, my heart doesn't matter.

But I don't like to explain what others think of me, as if I were a heinous sinner.

So what you see is me, both good and bad.

亲情有时候更像是一个茧,它能够遮风挡雨让你慢慢成长。

但是倘若你挣脱不开它,没有破茧而出,你就死在里面了。

Family sometimes more like a cocoon, it can block the wind and rain, let you grow slowly.

But if you can't get rid of it, you will die in it.

即使现在的我仍有很多不可爱之处,偶尔也会嫌弃自己,但我还是最最喜欢自己了。

我的模样里有我去过的地方,读过的书,与很多人对过的话,有爱我和我爱的人共同塑造的特性。

想了想,我真的很难不去珍惜和爱护这样的我。

Even now I still have a lot of loveliness, occasionally will dislike myself, but I still like myself the most.

I have places I have been to, read books, and many people have been to, there are characteristics that I love and people I love together.

Think about it, I really difficult not to cherish and cherish such a me.

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